For some parents each visit of the child of kindergarten turns into torture. Infinite tears, shouts, whims, scandals, arrangements... As, likely, these parents envy those families in which children go to kindergarten with pleasure. And they ask themselves questions more than once: how to adjust the child goes to kindergarten with pleasure? How to make so what the child himself asked for the "second house"?
The unwillingness to go to a garden is not always usual "asinine obstinacy" of the kid. Most often it is connected with any irritating factors. Your task as parent, in this case to make stay in kindergarten for the child the most comfortable. Learn from the tutor what problems arise at your child in kindergarten as other children treat it. Perhaps, they laugh at features of his appearance (birthmark or a scar), at clothes or a manner to speak. In that case there are two options. The first – to eliminate an object of sneers, for example, to change kindergarten clothes. The second – to put some idea to the child that what features of appearance or behavior make him unique, to develop at him immunity to sneers. And, besides, it is necessary to talk to parents of offenders that they carried out educational process concerning the children.
Take care that the child had always clean clothes. Better – with some fashion brand, for example, fashionable nowadays Angry Birds. Think, maybe, to it cold or inconveniently in sports "Czeches" or maybe he is not able to tie laces on boots in a pajamas and it irritates him.
Talk to the child what difficulties he meets in a garden. Perhaps, he is offended by some boy or the girl or maybe he hates "sadikovsky" food. Further it is necessary to try to eliminate the irritating factors. It is not always possible. Then it is necessary to help to cope to the child with them. It is not necessary to avoid difficulties and to solve all problems of the child for him. He has to overcome, to become them a winner. In that case and the zone of its comfort will extend.
And how to arrive in case the child just goes obstinate and wishes to stay at home? An explanation that there is no house all the same anybody, nobody with it will play and feed him, usually works. "Well and that? – the kid speaks. – I will wait for you the house. One". Perhaps, for prevention it is also worth leaving his once one (but not for the whole day, of course, and on about 15 minutes – and to look what will leave), but it is the most extreme case and it is better not to resort to it at all. There is a mass of more humane ways how to force the child to go to a garden. Buy it special clothes and footwear "for a garden", do not allow to dress it in other day. Then, especially, if your child – the dandy, each campaign in a garden is perceived as an exit in "light". Allow it to take toys in a garden and to brag to children. The main thing – that he did not forget them in kindergarten and did not break. If such trouble happened, you should not swear, but not to give a new toy to it until it brings old of kindergarten or until you eliminate breakage. For a campaign in a garden without hysterics it is possible to promise the kid something good. For example, if week goes to a garden and never cries and will not say goodbye home, at the end to week you take it in aquapark. But consider – if made such promise, it is necessary to carry out it, despite all force majeurs. Otherwise the child another time will not believe. You feed the child with tasty food before a garden and after a garden. It is possible to give it with itself to the road to a kindergarten "yum-yum": apple, candy, lollipop, piece of chocolate or something else... Then will go more cheerful. Surely talk to the kid during campaigns kindergarten and back. It is possible even to tell it the long interesting fairy tale in Shakherezada's style (that is, to leave the most interesting the next morning). Then at the child will be excess motivation to wake up in the morning and to run in a garden. To it it will be curious, than another adventures of the favourite hero ended!