Children are happiness and joy. Ways of finding of this happiness are different. One of such ways are an adoption. What for this purpose is necessary? Huge desire to share the love with the little man, and is possible and not with one. What waits for us on this way?
Those who want to adopt the child have a mass of questions. Also there is a feeling that everything is very not simple, it is almost impossible. The bureaucratic reality in our country does not add confidence. Also it seems that to the person who is ready to make decisions positively and to make happier the little man and the family, the set of barriers is built.
Whether but everything is so difficult?! What requirements are imposed to people who apply to undertake a role of the parent, ready to care for those who lack it really? Also moral preparation is important, and it is important to know what is necessary in order that the desired child after all could find the loving environment. What means to find family for those people who silnl need it? It is very important!
On the basis of provisions of Civil and Seymeny codes of the Russian Federation, only capable, full age citizens can be adoptive parents, trustees (trustees).
Who cannot be an adoptive father? There are several categories of citizens:
— persons who were recognized by court it is limited or completely incapacitated;
— persons whom deprived of the parental rights or which limited to court in the parental rights;
— persons who were discharged of performance of duties by them the trustee (trustee);
— persons who were adoptive parents earlier, but adoption was cancelled on their fault;
— persons who cannot undertake obligations for education of children for health reasons;
— persons who have no permanent residence; pay attention that housing can be removable (leased), only the lease agreement is necessary.
— persons who have no premises, which to otvechayettekhnichesky and health requirements;
— persons who have criminal record for a deliberate prostupleniye against health or life of citizens;
— the persons which do not have income which will be able to provide to the sponsored child a living wage; the minimum is established in that territorial subject of the Russian Federation where trustees live;
The married couple which is married can adopt the child. If marriage is not registered, then adoption is made out on one of parents. Also the person who is not married can become the trustee.
Many think that in provided orphanage it will be better for the child in respect of material security. Know that no expensive toys will replace parental love, caress, care and a kiss for the night.
Adoption (guardianship) - very responsible step therefore if is though the slightest doubts you do not hurry. Now there are "Schools for foster parents". They will help to gain knowledge in the field of pedagogics and education, protection and child care. It will help adoptive parents to cope with a transition period.
One more way to understand whether you are ready to adoption, it ""the guest mode"". Future parents bring children home for holidays, for the weekend. Rapprochement occurs gradually. Such form of communication allows to change smoothly a situation, with the minimum stressful situations for both parties. And it will be simpler to child to get used to you and to learn new aspects of life. And will give you the additional chance to make sure of correctness of the made decision.
What waits for us on this way? The most tasty candy hidden in a case for mom is a lot of gentle and warm words, the small children's palm in a hand, the snuffling noses is near on a pillow and also long and laborious work in education, in the help to the child to adapt to the new environment. Ahead of you waits not for the easy period - but it is worth it.