Many parents and teachers complain that their children and pupils are passive and a little in what are interested. For a start you should be defined to what type of cool or extracurricular activity you would like to attract the child, and it is not so simple.
It is required to you
- Straight talk with school students
- To be aware of their interests, to be interested in modern hobbies of school students in general
Instruction
1. Do you consider that your pupils or children are very passive and a little in what are interested? You are not lonely. Now the problem of involvement of children, school students in public life costs very seriously. What classes of school students are the most significant from the point of view of parents and teachers? This reading, profound classes school objects (mathematics, physics, chemistry), sport, participation in the Olympic Games, art and music additional education.
2. If the child only went to school, you have a chance quickly and without serious consequences to correct everything. In general, in an amicable way to accustom the child to reading, follows sciences and sport earlier, but in the 1 and 2 class the child is more pliable to opinion of parents and teachers. So, what you can make. To find good interesting books. Pick up them especially for the child. Read together, read your favourite children's books, let the child see in your hands the book more often too. How will you be able to impart love for reading if you do not like to read?
3. You want to acquaint the child with sports activities. Before beginning to give long lectures about advantage of sport, think, and you how long did sports last time? Your example, joint sports leisure is very important. Choosing sports section for the child, you should not proceed from the unrealized dreams. If your school student prefers the companies and it is difficult for it to be alone even half an hour, safely choose team sports. It not only will strengthen the child, but also will help to build up the relationship with peers correctly. If your son or the daughter are more self-sufficient, children will obviously suit individual sports: tennis, figure skating, gymnastics.
4. You very much want to develop mental capacities of the child, to acquaint him with the different Olympic Games and competitions. It is necessary to accept at once that not everything depends on you. If the child objectively has no technical and mathematical abilities, interest in mathematics, you should not be under a delusion. But you can maintain mental capacities of your child in a constant tone: select to it interesting problems slightly more difficult, than they pass in school. Play chess and board games, find the interesting mathematical circle suitable on the level of knowledge for your child. Then, if abilities are shown later, it will be much easier for your school student to prove.
5. If you always dreamed of what your child will play and sing or draw, then be honest with themselves. If this your unrealized desire to become the musician, the singer or the artist, you do not transfer this projection to the child. But it is necessary to understand - abilities to music and to drawing are usually shown very much early. If your child is gifted in these areas, it could not pass by you unnoticed. Such abilities need to be developed and your child himself will ask you to take him to music or art school.
6. If your child approached awkward age, and apparent interests at it did not appear, it is an alarming sign. Something passed by you in its development, all people presented in any given sphere. But at teenage or preadolescent age the child listens to opinion of parents a little. It is carried away by an environment, peers, there he looks for and finds authoritative opinions. If you decided to help the child, choose for him a good environment. Transfer it to school where children are rather motivated for study or other achievements. Let it will go to circles to which his friends, but not go there where you went. The main thing, he will be keen, socialized, self-assured and busy.