The beginning of visit by the child of child care educational facility can be followed by a stressful state both at the kid, and at his parents. Such situations can be avoided if dad and mom carefully are prepared for this moment.
Training of parents
Having made the decision to send the child to kindergarten, carry out with yourself preparatory work. First of all be adjusted on the fact that you will need to leave your kid. At first for 1-2 hours, and then longer, gradually increasing time of its stay in establishment.
In advance learn which of tutors will work in your group. Personal acquaintance to them will give you confidence in their professionalism. It will be easier for you to transfer the child to already familiar people.
Get acquainted with the head of kindergarten. He will explain all rules of visit by the child of group. Pay special attention to fee of kindergarten and to setting on the child's food.
The child is put on food in advance. If you plan to come tomorrow, then to call kindergarten and it is necessary to report about your arrival today.
The medical personnel will also greatly help by preparation for visit of kindergarten. You will be told about all important points which need to be observed in family. Besides, physicians will give the list of children's doctors whom it will be necessary to pass for filling of the personal medical record of the child.
Training of the child
Long before official arrival of your kid to kindergarten, begin smooth preparation. Walking near kindergarten, explain to the child that here children go to play, study new and to make friends. You say to him that in a garden it is interesting, tutors know many games. Such positive spirit will help the child to show initial interest in kindergarten. Learn about a daily routine in kindergarten. Having brought closer to it a house day regimen, you will prepare the child for a vital stage, new to it. Besides, it will allow it to adapt to unfamiliar conditions quicker.
If your child closed try to walk more with him in crowded places. You teach it to meet peers, to play with them. Subsequently communication with strangers will not become a stress for your child.
If necessary address the children's psychologist, he is in staff of kindergarten. The expert will help the child to be trained for arrival to kindergarten, avoiding a stress. Besides, it will give you the chance to reveal and in due time to solve the hidden problems. In the first days of stay of the kid in group, remain together with it. It will give to the child confidence that he was not thrown that you are near. Subsequently he will be ready to be left in kindergarten without your presence. Support the child in all his undertakings, enjoy even to small success. So he will know that new knowledge, the skills received in kindergarten please his parents and find approval in family.