The modern world is very prompt and changeable. People constantly hurry, daily obtain the mass of information, master new technologies and try to enjoy life to the full possible. But even in such mad world there is a wish to be wise parents and to impart to the children a maximum useful, light and kind.
Instruction
1. You love the children irrespective of their progress or failures. The child has to be sure of unconditional parental love and support, it is very big support and an incentive in life.
2. Communicate with the child. Do not wave away from him, despite the employment. Sincerely be interested in his life, ask about how there took place him day, unostentatiously prompt how to behave in any given situation. If the child badly arrived, surely tell him about it. Thanks to such confidential conversations, you will gain trust and respect of the child, and in difficult moment of life he will come to you for support and council.
3. Respect the child. He already the personality though so far and small, it has thoughts, feelings and desires. Support him in all affairs and hobbies, you praise for victories and achievements and strictly do not criticize for temporary failures. You spend time together, pass on to the child the experience. Be consecutive in the acts, a personal example of parents – a basis of children's education.
4. Give to the child freedom of choice. Listen to his opinion and allow within reasonable most to make decisions. If the child wants to practise something concrete, for example, music or sport, give him such opportunity.
5. You do not speak to children of offensive and cruel words: "You will grow up the idler" or "Here Vitya is a good boy, and you are a blockhead and the mediocre pupil!". Such phrases are capable to lower a children's self-assessment and to develop the mass of complexes at the child.
6. Talk sincerely and convincingly. "You are not a greedy boy, think how to divide pears into all children!", "I know, you at me the clever and capable child and if you well think, then you will surely solve this problem!" - such words force the child to believe in themselves and inspire on new fulfillments.
7. Do not hesitate to apologize for the offensive words pronounced in a temper, or unfair acts, parents living people too, they can be tired, become angry and make mistakes. Children are very easily appeased and with pleasure will forgive you.