Children grow so quickly that their development quite often proceeds and practically without the aid of parents. But that children respected seniors and did not forget about them, it is necessary to spend with them more time and to take active part in education. There are certain techniques allowing to be closer to children.
Instruction
1. Walk with the child every day. Even if you are strongly busy, it is desirable to go to walk by all family at least once in a week, and let it will become your small ritual which, undoubtedly, will yield the results. You descend in a pizzeria or confectionery shop. It is an ideal opportunity to talk and play openly with the child who at the same time will be able well to have a rest.
2. Have a rest all family outdoors. Organize a picnic on a spacious glade and play with your child outdoor games. If children rather adult, it is possible to organize a bicycle race to the next settlement. Do not forget to take the camera and to immortalize all happy moments of a travel.
3. You watch film and animated films together with your child. Let he will feel that you have with it similar interests. It will help you to be closer to children and always to be aware of their small secrets which they with pleasure will share with the loving parents.
4. Tell stories from the youth. Children love interesting stories, especially if people and objects which they know are involved in them. Depending on age of the child tell it an interesting or funny story from your childhood or youth from which it is possible to learn a lesson.
5. You watch the appearance together with the child. In the mornings it is possible to do a hair of your daughter or to the son, to brush teeth and to choose dresses together. It will increase trust between you and children and also will allow to accustom children to useful habits.
6. Exchange more often Sms. If children already quite adult and to them it is authorized to have the mobile phone, send them messages from time to time. It is very cheerful and modern way of communication. But be not overzealous with maternal love and care in the messages.
7. Listen to music with your children. At advanced age children and, of course, teenagers like to listen to music. Try to find out what favourite style at them, performers, groups. Suggest each of you to make the list of favourite songs and to exchange them. You can offer popular music of last years, and in exchange receive the list of modern compositions. Thus, it will help you to be closer to children and their inner world, and the child in turn will also feel in you a soulmate.