In education of children the influence of each parent is based on rules which differ from each other. And in order that the child grew up the personality, it is necessary to apply many forces.
Ideal parents are not, education is a creative process which is individual for each child. It is impossible to bring up correctly or incorrectly, but it is possible to bring up the adequate and strong personality who surely will enter the adult world and will create to herself a name. And for this purpose it is necessary to be guided by some rules which, by the way, are not so difficult for carrying out.
- Support the child in his undertakings. Though the apple never falls far from the tree, not the fact that your child will choose those hobbies and hobbies, which to you to liking. And it is normal as he the individual with the ambitions and desires which make its character and realize it as person. If to limit the child in his aspirations - to forbid to go, for example, to ballroom dances and to write down violently in section of single combats. That your child, at best, will become a neurasthenic with unrealized dreams and desires, at worst it is better not to describe. Clinical cases of unrealized dreams sometimes describe in criminal reports.
- Stock up with patience. For the child an irritant a game on covers of pans, for example, unlike you often is not. Always try distinctly, quietly and intelligibly to explain why the behavior is unacceptable and offer alternatives.
- Be always ready to keep up the conversation. Any question of the child to you is first of all rendering to you trust and search of the help. Whom can the 6th summer boy or the girl address if not to the mom? Try to answer always questions, otherwise ignoring can lead to the fact that the child will become closed, unsociable, will retire into oneself.
It is worth remembering: what good friend you would not be for the child, all of you equally remain for him mom who has to not only be on friendly terms, but also prepare him for adulthood.