The difficult stage of children's whims, as a rule, begins at the child in 2-3 years. Correctly to react to behavior of the kid, parents first of all need to understand what so passes heavy, but necessary for the baby, the growing period.
Instruction
1. Disobedience and obstinacy of the child – not always whims. Try to look for other reasons of such behavior of the kid. The most frequent are the lack of parental attention, loneliness, boredom. In such situation whims – a way to attract attention mothers and fathers, communication with whom is necessary for the child as air. Remember that in parents all small world of the kid is concentrated, and they are his main people. Do not wave away from the child even if you were tired, not in mood, are busy. Do everything together, together, it is possible to find house occupation which also the baby can can do. Do not leave the kid alone with his problems: when something is impossible to him, he is sad. Be ready to come to the rescue, encourage him, to praise.
2. The set of the bans and restrictions is the frequent reason of whims of kids. Accustom themselves to use a word it "is impossible" as seldom as possible in communication with the child. Let it concern only really dangerous things, life-threatening and to health of the baby or other people. In other cases you say: "it is not necessary", "so we will not do", etc. Before strictly forbidding something, try other ways: to explain, switch attention, to embrace, interest in something another. The main thing – be consecutive in the rules established for the child. Then at it desire to test you whims will be gone. To realize not dissipated energy and quickly outdoor games and active walks in the fresh air will help to restore mood to the kid.
3. And at last, do not forget about the fact that the kid has the right sometimes to pokapriznichat. For example, if something hurts it, he was tired, it is disturbed by clothes or it is inconvenient in new footwear, and, perhaps, someone offended him. Be always quiet and attentive to the to the baby, and you will be able to endure a difficult period of whims, having avoided fatal mistakes in education of the child.