In process of growth of the child, cares of it appears more. To the woman to become it is heavy to give it as much attention as in the period of an infancy. And work and a household very much tire and do not allow to be same reserved and patient as earlier. And once the woman understands that her attitude towards the child left far from an image of ideal mother.
Instruction
1. To the child it is very important that mom always was near him. Unfortunately, it is not always feasible, the modern woman often needs to work. In that case it is necessary to organize accurately the leisure to manage to find time for the child. For example, devote one of weekend only to it, you go somewhere to have a good time, together draw, read, play. Not only your care, but also attention is important for the kid. Insufficiently simply daily to drive it in a garden and to watch over health. Only when so little child, it is possible to spend with him so much time how many there is a wish. Then he will grow up and you with grief will realize that it does not need you the same as in the childhood any more.
2. Try to talk to the child as equals. Do not violate its right. Always ask his opinion. Consult on it when the question concerns it. For example, in shop upon purchase of toys ask it what thing is pleasant to it. It is important to child to realize that you respect him and perceive as the independent personality.
3. If it is possible, spend evenings by all family more often. At this time it is possible that that to do in common. It is an excellent opportunity for a confidential conversation. Ask the child to tell about what interesting occurs in his life. Pay attention to his hobbies. Show it that it is really important for you. Such family talk will become pledge of the benevolent relations in the future.