The child to whom study troubles - not the idler. He very much wants to study as 4 and 5. To please parents with school progress. Just does not know what for this purpose should be done. Parents have to help it.
If study troubles the child, first of all he has to be helped by parents. They best of all know the son or the daughter. Therefore it is easier for them to find the reason of bad progress of the offspring.
The child is not guilty
Quite perhaps, the child does not cope with the school program because has problems with health. For example, logopedic. The child with violation of the speech experiences difficulties by the letter and reading. It is difficult to it to answer at a board. Therefore even with good knowledge he can receive the three.
School progress is affected also by temperament. If the child sluggish by nature, a work rhythm in a class seems to it too fast. He is not in time, feels "ill at ease", quickly gets tired. Do not demand from the child impossible. Understand, not to everyone it is allowed to be the excellent student.
Not laziness, but fatigue
Fatigue – the main reason of bad notes. Parents have to pay attention to extracurricular activties of the child. Physicians consider that the school student can normally study if he visits only one intellectual circle and sports section. The surplus of additional loadings takes away forces and distracts from lessons. It is important to observe a day regimen. The child has to fill up and wake up in at one time. This rule extends also to preparation of homework, meal, walks. The correct schedule well affects health.
The computer – the friend or the enemy?
Limit time which the school student spends at the TV or the computer till 1.5 o'clock. Psychologists sound the alarm long ago: at the child shipped in screen pictures the part of a brain which is responsible for creativity is disconnected. It badly acquires the objects connected with abstract thinking. Does not understand physics. Is not able to write compositions and even to draw. However you should not taboo the computer. The computer science begins to be studied in kindergarten now. There were a lot of developing computer games, qualitative informative movies.
Business to liking
Difficult relations with peers can be the cause of school problems. The child sharply endures the failures in study, is afraid of sneers of schoolmates. Together find occupation in which he will be able to disclose the talents and to fight for superiority. Achievements will lift a self-assessment. Self-confidence is useful also in study.
In school all family
Regularly check homework. The child has to understand that the learned lesson him surely will be asked by mom or dad. You praise even for small progress (quickly solved a problem, made less mistakes in exercise). Show sincere interest school affairs of the son or daughter. Ask how there went the excursion to the museum as the class is preparing for a holiday. The child has to trust parents and ask at the right time for the help.