How to behave with the child if he does not know you

How to behave with the child if he does not know you

Coming on a visit to friends and acquaintances, you communicate also with their children. Often adults who have no kids are lost from that huge number of children's questions and unusual requests. It is impossible to ignore the interest of children therefore it is necessary to be prepared for communication with them in advance, your help can be necessary also for the neighbour's child in the yard.

Instruction

1. All - both adults, and children are estimable and the sincere relation to themselves. You, of course, should not spend on a visit all evening behind a game to Lego with foreign child, but it is polite to be presented to the little person and you are quite able to answer couple of questions.

2. It is not necessary "to lisp" and distort the speech, imitating baby talk. The child has to hear competently constructed phrases and literary words to learn to speak correctly. Exclude offensive language and slang expressions.

3. Usually girls reach for women effective externally, and boys seek for communication with cheerful guys. At acquaintance to foreign child do not allow familiarity, he has to respect adults. Therefore try to teach the kid only good, with it you will be helped by the developing games which for certain acquaintances have in the house.

4. Do not impose to parents of the child of the methods of education. If you allow the kid to eat secretly excess candy, thereby will undermine authority of his mom who forbade the child to eat too much sweet, and do much harm to his health. Strictly follow the rules established in the house where you came on a visit. If it seems to you that children are raised incorrectly, present to parents the book written by the authoritative author-teacher.

5. The child can aggressively behave – to shoot pools with the gun, to select a handbag, to pull hair. In this case it is not necessary to shout and swear, put the child near yourself and, looking to him in eyes, quietly tell that it was sick and unpleasant to you. Specify that enemies so behave, and nobody wants to get them, it is better to remain friends.

6. Often unfamiliar children, if you with them communicate with pleasure and you answer tricky questions, can entrust you the secret. Do not give harmless secrets to parents. If an essence of "secret" in secret smoking or in truancies of school lessons, try to convince the child not to do it more. Tell about the true-life stories when such pranks seriously harmed you.

7. At the next meeting learn how the situation at the child is. Warn that so far it remains your secret, but if progress is not, you will need to ask for help of his parents. Children not just like that consult on adults, they thus ask for your help. Manage to render it in due time and carefully in relation to the kid.

8. You share with children in the yard the abilities, skill and knowledge. If you organize children and will make several beautiful birds feeders, will break a lawn, it will do all good.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team


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