In many religions there is a judgment that the child bears in himself the Divine therefore it needs to indulge in everything. The element of truth in it is, but also the golden mean is necessary here.
Instruction
1. The Japanese wise men recommend to adhere to total freedom in education. Despite age, they teach that the child cannot be limited in anything. For example, if the kid breaks a window, it cannot be abused at all. It is necessary to wait for the moment when he understands what mistake he made. That is after nightfall in the room it will become cool, the child will freeze. Thus, the kid will independently draw a conclusion that he arrived badly.
2. As the main basic characteristics are put at the kid approximately up to five-six years, at preschool age it is difficult to cope with it. For example, if the child refuses to go to school, then it is not necessary to force him. It will lead to negative associations concerning educational process. Try to interest the kid. Place emphasis on those objects which are closest to it.
3. Often children at younger school age begin to realize all charm of independence. In this case you should not give to the child total freedom, but also each step also should not be controlled. At the kid the period of formation of the personality begins. For this reason it is so important to teach the child to cope with difficulties independently.
4. Remember that under no circumstances it is impossible to beat the child. With him it is necessary to behave as equals. Otherwise at the kid the inferiority complex will begin to develop. Owing to age to the child it is important that reckoned with his opinion.