Sociologists and psychologists curse the Russian traditions of education of men in which there is no place to the father. Even married ladies sometimes undertake all obligations for education of the son. And lonely mothers do not think at all of how to provide to the child at least a small shred of men's education. As a result the infantile and irresponsible men not capable to full-fledged life in society grow up.
Instruction
1. Do not do of the son the girlfriend. "Procrastinate" the problems, a women stuff with girlfriends. Even if the son emotionally is close to you, do not accustom him to a female way of conducting a talk about problems. The men's way of discussion of problems is a short analysis of a situation and decision-making, active actions on the basis of the made decision. A female way of discussion of problems – something seriously to change infinite lamentations without attempts.
2. In time "cut an umbilical cord". Some mummies compensate a lack of men's love for the account of the son. He becomes for it the little gentleman who looks after her as the adult. It is necessary to accustom the boy to the gallant relation, but do not go to far. He has to become the personality, independent and independent of mom, with the affairs and interests in time.
3. Find to the son a men's circle of contacts. Absolutely without men's influence you should not leave the child. It can be written down in sports section, to help it to come into contact with male relatives. The boy needs objects for imitation among representatives of the floor so it is necessary to encourage in every possible way its aspiration to the men's companies.
4. Do not forget about the private life. You should not give to the son all free time. Since five years children seek to be independent, they do not need too much guardianship and attention. Find to yourself better the man who will divide your tenderness and caress with your son. In addition the adjusted private life will help you to avoid temptation of establishment of too close emotional relations with the son.