To parents, besides the correct feeding and training, important also to bring up mentally healthy person. Mothers and fathers like to represent the future of their kid in detail: he does sports, goes to the prestigious university, marries, and, of course, he is very happy. However to be happy too it is necessary to be able, and better to teach the child to it in the childhood.
Instruction
1. Happy parents – pledge of peace of mind of children. Certainly, in the first years of life the mental balance of mother is the most important. If you are in a depression, it seems to you that you are in time nothing, you suffer from a lack of communication, you will not be helped by false smiles – the kid will feel your state. Therefore try to reconstruct your day regimen so that you could be engaged in the affairs bringing you pleasure. Employ the nurse, ask friends or relatives to look after the kid until you visit desired master-class on scrapbooking, leave the child on the husband and go to day spa. If you cease to feel like the martyr locked within four walls the advantage will be also to you, and the child.
2. Explain to the child of a thing which are interesting to him. Even if it seems to you that the kid will understand nothing, try as it is possible to tell more well why the tram, and the sky blue goes. Your explanations increase intelligence and the child's self-assessment, besides, in the first years of life for him it is the only way to learn the world.
3. Allow the child to be mistaken. Of course, he needs to be protected from things which can do harm to his health, however allow the kid to learn on own experience that just begun to boil teapot hot, and the cat is painfully scratched if to pull her a tail. Your child will much quicker learn on the mistakes, than will acquire from your explanations.
4. You spend time with the child interestingly and fruitfully. Together participate in games, at the same time it is desirable that you expressed to this pastime though the slightest interest because mom who is wearily throwing a ball, will not amuse the kid. You make hand-made articles, walk on the city, attend actions, the childhood of your child will be remembered to it forever. If this time becomes happy for the kid, it will have an excellent beginning of life.