There are several types of education of children in family. Most often parents raise the children in the same style in what brought up also them. From what style of education will be chosen by parents, both the future of the child, and the relation between the matured children and their elderly parents depends.
Instruction
1. That the child grew up happy, children's psychologists recommend to avoid two extreme methods of education – authoritative style and popustitelsky style of education.
2. It is not necessary to dictate to the child each step, imprisoning any and self-expression.
3. Do not permit to the child very much, it generates not only pamperedness, but also risk for health of the child, it has not enough experience to estimate degree of the opportunities.
4. The child can remember not really many bans (namely, so much, how old is he, plus one; that is the four-year-old child will well remember only five zaret) therefore instead of the bans it is better to use an alternative method.
5. The parents wishing to bring up the happy and full-fledged child have to choose the style of education based on patience and love.
6. Refuse corporal punishments. To understand that it is not a way of the solution of problems, visit, for example, the website я-родитель.ру.
7. Do not order to the child, and agree with him. You politely ask to satisfy your requests.
8. You introduce restrictions. But they have to work every day. But not so that it is possible today, and tomorrow it is impossible. At the same time restrictions have to be so much how many the child can remember. On average this quantity is equal to age of the child + 1. For example, if the child is 4 years old, he can remember 5 restrictions.
9. Every day you say to the child that you love him, at least five times. As much time embrace and kiss.
10. You find an opportunity every day to devote the time only to the child. If you are borrowed almost all the time by work, be in time at least to reading of the fairy tale for the night. And surely compensate this communication on the weekend.
11. You teach the child to enjoy life, develop in him sense of humour, you say more often that such happiness, every evening remember that wonderful last day brought. These abilities it is much more important, than reading and the account. Will teach it also at school. But if child in family do not teach to be happy in life, then it will be very difficult to acquire this skill.