The vast majority of parents faces disobedience of the child. Neither threats, nor arrangements help. That the bad behavior did not develop into a serious problem, it is necessary to know some subtleties of education.
Instruction
1. Be consecutive. If you established in family of the rule which the child cannot break, hold the ground. You should not allow the daughter to touch your jewelry and cosmetics when you have a good mood and to abuse her for it next day after the mood at you deteriorated.
2. You do not say too much. Adults know similar psychological method: when the chief within half an hour in strong expressions explains to you as you are wrong, it is possible to present that you sit on the beach, and abuse of the chief muffles noise of waves and shouts of seagulls. The similar trick will save you from a stress. But if you shout at the child, long and with pleasure reproaching him for the broken vase, the kid "will be disconnected" too. Try to state the claims briefly and well.
3. The more the child of the bans, the has more opportunities to break them. Try to create a friendly and favorable environment for the kid. Help it to make friends with the company with which it will not be terrible to you to leave to walk the little person, remove chemicals on a mezzanine, and you should not forbid the child to open a case. The less bans, the it is less than reasons for bad behavior.
4. Do not demand from the child of instant implementation of your orders. Present how your spouse speaks to you: "Give up the affairs and quickly make for me pilaf!". For certain you would not like similar command and devil-may-care attitude to your own classes. Do not afford similar behavior and in relation to the kid. Ask it to clean up ware after it finishes drawing a picture, or during the day to put the scattered toys.
5. Trust the child. If relatives presented him for birthday expensive railroad, you should not go behind it and to remind that it is worth handling a toy accurately. After the kid breaks it and will understand that he cannot play more with it, he also will think of the behavior and next time will handle more carefully things and without your reminder.
6. Kind of you brought up the child, sometimes he will not obey and be capricious all the same. Ideal "training" as in a case with a dog, will not help you. Be ready to it and consider this fact even during planning of the kid.