Unfortunately, not each married couple manages to live "long and happily". And the most important after parting is to keep the civilized relations for the sake of children. They suffer from a divorce more. And to mothers to have to put a lot of effort for the correct education of children in incomplete family in which they would not feel lonely.
Instruction
1. The biggest mistake with which lonely mothers sin is the wrong image of the father which they impart the daughter. Seldom who manages to leave the child's father without offenses and mutual insults. And all unexpressed words personally, develop into conversations with the child who is not guilty of anything. But to have to serve him as the buffer between maternal hostility to "former". But let's understand if your former darling was such rascal, what you loved him for and were with him together? Such talk you can only sink authority in an estimation of the child and to be an illegible little fool. And here the love for the father can only amplify, as to the victim which such claim lady met.
2. The neutral statement about the child's father, especially, if joint life of couple did not take place will be the best option. Respond to inquiries of the daughter quietly, without estimated statements. It is better if the conversation is in a key: "I very much wanted the child and I gave birth to him, and your dad had other plans for life. But I am grateful to it for the fact that I have you". This option approaches in case the father of the child do not take part in his education. If the daughter regularly sees the father, he can have other opinion on your parting. In this case reach the agreement with the spouse that you will adhere to one version for the benefit of your daughter. Though, sometimes to reach a compromise happens very much and very difficult, especially, if also other relatives interfere.
3. It is difficult to the girls growing in incomplete families without father to learn to build up the correct relationship with an opposite sex. It can be expressed also in excessive shyness and, on the contrary, in hyper sexuality. There is no model of the correct relations of the man and the woman in own family before eyes. Girls can be frightened societies of boys if it is not in the immediate environment. Or to compensate their absence by persuasive behavior. You have to understand that there is no fault of the girl in it. Also it is not about deviant behavior, and about usual children's complexes and the shortages of parental love. Also it is necessary not to abuse, and to show that there are other sides of life in which there is a place of love and to mutual respect. In many respects a role the fact that she heard about men from you at small age played in such behavior of the girl. And, and sometimes, and hatred transferred all the fears to the teenage period.