Each parent to seek to bring up the child the happy and successful person. Unfortunately, not everyone knows how it is possible to make it correctly. It appears, there are several simple rules, carrying out which, parents will approach the children and will be able to build up trusting relationship. It is unimportant how many to the child of years, he has to be able to trust the parents.
Rules on education of the child
1. You joke and laugh with the child. It is not necessary to hesitate to be cheerful, playing with the kid. Try to be more often with the child on one wave, attend with it various actions. Important! Your child will remember the childhood well, so make this time the happiest for it.
2. Do not hide the love. The child has to feel that he is loved. It is not necessary to hold down itself in gentle words, embrace the kid.
3. Approve actions and aspirations of your child. You praise the kid and support in all his undertakings. Allow your child to make independently mistakes, then carry out collaboration in analysis. If you became angry about it, punish so that punishment was equivalent to offense. Do not idealize the child. Remember! It same and other children.
4. Surely teach the child to tell the word "no". Many parents teach the child to be ready to help. In the correct education of it should not be. There is a set of requests which it is necessary to refuse unconditionally. The kid has to understand it. You should not confuse concepts politeness and non-failure operation.
5. Teach the child to express the feelings. Children's psychologists recommend to teach the child not to hide the feelings and it is correct to show them. In this case the kid will be able to adapt to the outside world and to understand feelings of other people.
The born child is a personality, this feature needs to be considered surely, being engaged in his education, it is not necessary to impose the opinion.