All parents hope that their child will grow up kind, sympathetic and obedient. But for this purpose it is necessary to make some efforts to help the kid to understand what is good and that is bad.
Initially children are not born angry and disobedient, the wrong education of adults makes them such.
- Get a pet. Kitten, rabbit, puppy or someone else. The kid who got used to care only of himself will learn to care for someone another. It will help the baby to become more sympathetic, responsible, for a pet it is necessary to look after, feed, play with him.
- Do kind acts together. You feed stray dogs and cats. Help old men to inform of heavy bags. Make a feeding trough and feed up birds. Teach to give way in public transport. In response to kind acts encourage the child with panegyrics, gratitude, a smile, encouragement. Let the kid since childhood will acquire that doing good, he gets positive emotions, good mood and joyful feeling of own importance.
- Do not force the child to share the toys, sweets and other things belonging to him with other children. At least up to 3 years. To this age everything that is connected with it - it is IT. Its toys, its candies, his mom. And selecting it, there is a risk to develop such qualities as egoism and greed. Respect personal space of the child.
- Read, listen or you watch kind fairy tales. The benefit now, in the presence of the Internet, can be found with ease those. They will teach the kid to altruism and kindness. Discuss with him which of heroes was pleasant to it more, kind of it arrived in the situations described by fairy tales. Let the kid imitate the pleasant good heroes.
- Develop in the child tolerance, care and kindness also the egoism, it is kind of strange sounded. Surely you find time for yourself, the rest, personal care. Let the kid know that mom has affairs, and she cannot and should not carry out constantly his requirements and indulge him in everything.
The most important in this question not to overdo not to cause the return reaction from the kid. Very often excessively selfish, greedy and jealous children at those mothers who go too far in education of the child kind and sympathetic. It is also important to verify a side, between kind and very kind since excessively kind people in today's world, unfortunately, risk to be misunderstood, obsmeyanny and unaccepted society.