It is known that optimists are ill much less often, are less subject to a stress and a thicket enjoy life. How it is correct to bring up the child optimist?
Instruction
1. Help to achieve success Children form an optimistic view on life and increase self-respect when they manage to make something well. In order that everything turned out well, parental support is necessary. Besides, when at the child something well turned out, parents need to notice it aloud and to praise the child. The main thing is not to go too far.
2. Explain thanks to what the child achieved will be not enough success of One praise. The explanation of the reason clear to the child for which he well made something surely has to follow a praise. That is it is always necessary to explain to the child making his success that he understood – good luck is not always given just like that.
3. Do not overpraise the child you Should not extol the child absolutely for everything that he does, otherwise in the future he will not be able independently to solve problems that leads to confusion, concern, uncertainty and a depression.
4. Give support at failures When something is impossible to children, they begin to feel uncertainly. At such moments especially important that parents were near and could encourage and take.
5. Teach to notice the child only good Should be explained that it is always possible to find something positive in any situation. It is possible to offer to find as a game to the child something good in negative.
6. You do not speak about the child badly in his prisutstviiva you can perfectly correct his behavior, but never call it the fool, lack of talent, the meanie and in other words. Children believe parents therefore shortly at such words it it will become valid the fool, the meanie and lack of talent.