Careful parents hope that their kid will grow up the successful person, the leader. They enjoy small victories of the child, with pride tell friends and acquaintances and how easily he everything manages what talented and their clever kid. At the same time each child is talented, even ingenious. But to disclose his talent, it is necessary to grow up really integral personality. For this purpose parents need to make considerable efforts.
Instruction
1. The role of family in education is simply huge. It cannot be diminished. If you since the birth of the child are directly involved in education processes, to help it to develop abilities, to support and also to direct, then with you there will be native and very close being always nearby, and you will never be forgotten and will estimate all made efforts.
2. Develop spirituality in the child. One of the main components of development of the harmonious and successful personality is the spirituality. Here enter: empathy, esthetic perception, conscience (responsibility for the acts), respect for others life, commitment, self-control (managements of own actions).
3. Begin to impart to the child high qualities since childhood (especially empathy) when the kid only begins to learn the world. Show it a beautiful flower and if the kid tries to break it, explain that it cannot be done, the flower will die. Just suggest it to consider. In this case you develop at the same time also esthetic perception.
4. Read to the kid more parables and fairy tales for children. In each fairy tale there are the morals. Help the child to understand it. Ask the additional questions helping it to realize the sense put in the work.
5. The ability of perception of beauty is a basis for development of intelligence of the child and also cognitive activity. Walking with the kid, try to pay his attention even to the most insignificant objects. At the same time do not forget to express the emotional attitude towards them.
6. Cultivate responsibility for own acts in the child. Any parent faces infinite requests of the kid to buy him a puppy (a hamster, a kitten) once. Grant this request, let the child study responsibility for the living being. In the beginning you need to show him as it is correct to look after this animal: to feed, remove. Then do not forget to remind the kid of his duties, but never do all, your child will be able to get used and absolutely will cease to care for the pet.
7. Only the self-assured child will be able to become the full-fledged personality. Do not compare the child to other children, so you will be able to reduce confidence of the child in yourself. The self-assessment is formed in the childhood for this reason you praise the little man for his efforts more often. Allow to help it to you about the house.
8. You have more fun with the child: organize house performances, masquerades, representations. Laugh, let your kid be not afraid to express the emotions.
9. Listen to the child, never wave away from him even if absolutely small problems who as not you will be able to help it to understand it. Become the kid an example, show where there is a border between the good and evil.