The real woman - elegant and strict, but at the same time sympathetic and open - many mothers dream to see such the adult daughter. And the foundation of the correct education is laid in the childhood.
Favorable situation in family - guarantee of the correct education
It is silly to expect that in the conditions of constant scandals, estrangement and mutual disrespect of family members harmoniously developed girl - future real woman can grow up. Since the earliest childhood in the child the perception of as persons is put. And if the adults occupied with own squabbles pay not enough attention to the baby, she develops an inferiority complex which will pursue all life. Therefore what difficult situation in family would not develop, try to find for the girl at most for time. Draw princesses in magnificent dresses, palaces with kind kings, animals who are on friendly terms among themselves. So the child not only will receive a charge of positive emotions, but will understand that it is interesting to adults with it, let for the present and small, but the person, the personality.
Do not torment the child with hyper guardianship, give a choice opportunity from the earliest age. Education in most cases - dialogue, but not the ardent speech of the parent.
Also in the early childhood the mother's example is very important for the daughter. The girl copies how the loved one behaves. If mom is quiet, smiling, does not provoke scandals, watches herself, dresses well, then and the girl will try to behave well, to correspond to a high level. She will never raise the voice if mom does not break on shout. Will not take away a toy and to butt in a fight if adults are respectful to it and each other. The correct behavior of parents in the childhood puts the main traits of character future real wife's.
The real woman - personal care is put since childhood
The real woman can be not beautiful, but she it will be obligatory well-groomed. And bases of everyday care of themselves also take root to girls at the youngest age. And it concerns not only hygiene. And it is so clear that it is necessary to brush teeth in the morning and in the evening, and to wash hands - every time before food, after visit of a toilet, and after walk. It concerns both healthy nutrition, and harmonious physical development. You should not hope for the nature thanks to which all calories at children go to growth. Yes, years to twelve it will occur, but then the organism will learn to create fat stocks. And it will be very difficult to change a diet of the girl who got used to eat fat roast chicken, potato, mayonnaise salads for the first decade of life. Therefore you feed the child from the earliest age with healthy food, having limited high-calorific, sweet and fat dishes. Then at the girl the correct taste will be created, she will have no desire there are a fast food and chips instead of a normal lunch.
Allow the girl to use cosmetics, only teach to do it correctly. Do not forbid it to be smothered and to put on beautifully. On own example show how to create a stylish organic image.
The easy daily gymnastics will be useful to both mom, and the daughter. It will allow to hold muscles in shape, to spend excess calories, to lift the general tone of an organism. The habit to do exercises every day, introduced in adulthood from the childhood, not only well affects health, but also perfectly disciplines. And self-checking - one of the main qualities of the real woman. And, of course, in order that the real woman grew up from the girl, the love is necessary for her. Sincere joy and admiration of the family give to the child confidence in own forces which will only get stronger every year, allowing to set any purposes and to try to obtain them.