Probably, all young families at least once thought of how it is correct to bring up their little child. Education methods at all parents different and directly depend on personal features.
Instruction
1. Be not afraid to spoil the kid, respond to his desire to be near you from first months of life — so you will create at it confidence that he is not lonely that it is important. The satisfaction of its basic needs is so vital for the child.
2. Maintain initiative of the baby, you say to him that he made correctly: "You are such good fellow, so highly climbed..." — and only then point to a mistake or danger: "here it is dangerous to climb to one, call mom". It is naturally necessary to use the best efforts that Wednesday around the kid was safe: remove objects, dangerous to it, protect sockets, hide wires , etc.
3. Do not program it on failure. You do not speak "you will not be able, will hit, will get sick, will fall". Replace these phrases on better "carefully, be accurater, do not hit, you will be able when you grow up".
4. You remember if the kid nashkodnichat, he has to understand that his act is bad, but not he ("You are a good fellow, but to draw on walls — badly, it cannot be done"). Do not wait that the kid independently realizes the offense and will understand the mistake. Try to explain him it in the most available to it to a form.
5. Do not humiliate, do not hang up labels (silly, ugly , etc.) — "as you will call the yacht, so it also will float". It can cause complex at the child. Use simple words it "is possible" and it "is impossible" by means of which you will manage to construct adequate line of conduct and also to cope with various problems.
6. Do not forget that the growing child likewise needs the bans, as well as permissions and a praise. The bans and the requirement of implementation of some rules help the child to accustom to the world, new to it, to perceive experience of other people, to trust parents. Therefore be not afraid to forbid the child something, do it as it is possible more quietly and more surely, and then he will not complain and be capricious.
7. Do not sponsor the baby excessive guardianship, give it the chance to independently explore the world around. Just you are nearby and insure, but do not interfere with its activity. Otherwise, otherwise, the child all life will stay under your wing.