Education of children - quite difficult and long process. Each parent wants to see the child kind and sympathetic, but, unfortunately, not always everything goes well.
Formation of genetic favor
Even during pregnancy the woman is in fidget, is nervous, worries, thinks of the one who will be in the long term - the son or the daughter? During pregnancy it is better to minimize similar perzhivaniye as this period is very important for formation of future person. With the birth of the kid the family thinks - how to grow up the sympathetic and human child? Whether these qualities in the future will prevent it? Whether his good nature and pity against him will turn back?
Psychologists claim that the children study and slowly mature already early enough. To bring up the careful and gentle person accidentally it will not turn out. The father and mother become an example. Spoiled and spoiled is also reflection of family, to what the street would not teach, key influence all the same happens at home.
Love
It is necessary to love and praise by all means, but moderately. It should not be expressed in number of material benefits. Modern devices, modern clothes - all this not the evidence of love, expressing warmth and empathy, and it is rather a satisfaction of the next desire. Such rates it is possible to miss that opportunity when the child crosses the permissibility border. To show, and it is even better to teach disinterested aid to the neighbor or elderly people will be the great base for formation of the kind sympathetic personality further. The main thing to prepare the child for commission of kind acts and to train to show respect for others.
Guardianship
Protection at teenage age will yield negative result. Demonstration of guardianship over the child, will entail excessive delicacy and pamperedness. The slightest bruise or a scratch causes huge fear in mom. However in the future the inability independently solve a problem can will be shown unexpectedly, and not from the best side. Treachery, envy and the evil in our society are present constantly, they an integral part of life. To teach to cope with it is the task hard. To try to prompt to Neokhodimo the decision. You should not mold an ideal, perfection, a heap of the acquired complexes - it is even worse.
Sample
The child perceives bad location of spirit of parents close to heart. Especially if it occurs when he has to talk and find out a problem. Shouts, scandals, the increased tone of a voice - are unacceptable. In such cases it is necessary to talk, explain the reason of such mood. It is still difficult to them to understand shortcomings and difficult vital rules. It is better to postpone for a while affairs and to try to calm down.
Responsibility
Contrast of responsibility – excessive complacency. Too sensitive, they can drag to the apartment of the thrown dogs and cats. That is to renounce the interests in the victim another. Extremes will not lead to anything good. It is possible to bring to it - for example if to get a kitten as the child should look after him.
To spend more time, to read interesting books, fairy tales, to watch animated films. The patience, attention, communication, friendly atmosphere will help to show positive lines and to put the correct education in children. To achieve the objective, it is enough to be an example for imitation.