In your family the little lady grows up. She already became almost adult, spins in front of the mirror, carefully thinks over clothes, chooses a new hairstyle. You with surprise observe as far as it changed, became more graceful as the first signs of femininity are shown in it. Happens very not easy to find a common language with this new, almost the adult. How it is correct to bring up the teenage girl?
Instruction
1. Never make unpleasant comments on appearance of the maturing daughter. At this age of the girl take them very painfully. They notice that their appearance changes, there are first signs of femininity. But this stage is overcome not by all girls easily. Many of them have complex, comparing themselves to girlfriends who can look more senior.
2. Explain to the daughter that the organism of each girl is unique. Also develops at the, individual speed. Calm the girl, tell that to hurry time is not present sense. Sooner or later and she will begin to look more adult, just it will occur a bit later. When she becomes more senior, she, on the contrary, will enjoy this slow development.
3. Allow the girl to look as she wants. Of course, it is necessary to watch that its external image was within decency, but also to forbid it to carry things which are pleasant to it you cannot. At teenage age the opinion of age-mates for all children comes to the forefront. Parents a little for whom continue to remain absolute authorities. Show wisdom. You remember this psychological feature of teenagers. Be not a tyrant, on the contrary, you have a chance to begin to build with her the true adult friendship. The teenager subconsciously looks for authority. Therefore so often children at this age want to resemble actors, singers and singers. Become the authority for the daughter. Let her know that her mom is able not to look worse than any star.
4. Dress up and make the first experiments in a make-up together. Let it will become your new game which succeeded dolls. The girl has to find support and approval in your actions. You are a loved one.
5. Encourage hobbies of the daughter. Music, dances, sport, intellectual games, tourism... It has to be engaged in everything that is pleasant to it to splash out amount of energy which is saved in its organism during active growing.
6. Accustom the girl to look after yourself daily. It touches a face, skin of hands, intimate hygiene, hair, etc. It becomes the woman, and a female body - very fragile tool, it is necessary to look after him constantly and to do it correctly. Show everything on own example.
7. Explain to the girl that in the relations with young people it is important to keep self-respect, not to throw the arms round a neck to the first comer to the guy. Not to show the sympathy in front of all. It is important to keep mutual respect in the love relations, cares about each other. If the teenage girl these things from the very beginning, her is much easier to build the relations with men in the future. It is the best of all if parents teach the harmonious family relations on own example.