Education of children is very hard, laborious work. Parents raise the children all the life, in hope that their child will grow up the honest, kind and worthy person.
In the modern world it is not so simple to bring up the worthy person. It is caused by the fact that around the cruelty, indifference, abundance of temptations reigns. Education of sons is a separate subject. How to bring up the boy the kind, honest person, but at the same time so that he did not become a laughing stock for others, is a big problem. However it is possible to solve it not only, but also it is necessary. It is always very important to teach the son to be honest. Do not deceive him, in family there should not be a place of a lie. Accept any its truth. Do not criticize, are not angry, try to understand why he acted this way. Otherwise it will lead to the fact that the child will become isolated. He will be afraid you, something to tell, expecting in reply to the critic or shout. It will be easier for it to tell you "sweet" beds to avoid scandal or the next reprimand.
Surely develop in it the point of view. Consult always on it, ask his opinion in different situations, agree, and sometimes and challenge what he would learn to defend the position. It will teach him to be able to think, not to give in to manipulation of others.
Put in the child sense of responsibility for consequences of the acts. He will learn to be responsible for the acts and their consequences. It him will teach to think before something to make. You praise the son, try to support him always. The praise - increases feeling of self-advantage, develops a high self-assessment, and this is the big assistant in life. However you should not be overzealous here, the excessive praise is absolute in everything can result in pride and arrogance and also negative attitude to criticism. Teach the boy to respect seniors, not to offend younger and in any situation to remain fair. Such simple criteria of education are capable to help the boy grow the leader, kind, honest the responsible man. He will always be oneself, without losing the personality. At all this, it is necessary to remember that parents are an example of imitation for children.