Mom – the most important and most difficult profession in the world. You have no weekend, breaks on coffee and sick-lists, you work daily and every minute. Mom will cope with everything, but when the child cries, even she is ready to lower hands. The kid cannot stop shout and tears, and you cannot stop it. Nerves hand over, you begin to be angry and are already ready to break. To Postoyta, and you tried to calm him? Not to raise the voice and to punish, namely to calm? It is possible to make it as follows.
It is required to you
- The encyclopedia on child care, the room fountainlet, toys, pets.
Instruction
1. If the child cries, so on that is the reason, and here as far as it serious – a wet diaper or desire to bite for an ear of a cat, to solve it already to you. To calm the kid, try to remove the causes of possible crying one after another.
2. The child wet – is time to change diapers. Even if in maternity hospital you were told that it is necessary to swaddle each 2-3 hours before feeding, it does not mean at all that the kid "having made the affairs", has to wait for the following shift of a diaper quietly.
3. The kid is hungry – babies quickly are tired therefore they can directly fall asleep on the middle of feeding, without having gorged on. In this case it is convenient to feed the kid on demand. To learn whether is enough for the kid of milk, carry out the test for "wet diapers".
4. The child wants to sleep. Overexcited the baby cannot fall asleep at once, though strongly wants it. Show patience and try to suffer from travel sickness it. In such situation the quiet gentle music or the murmuring water – the room fountainlet or a squirt of a pressure of water in the bathroom will become assistants. Sing a lullaby, it is possible even to waltz slightly, lulling the child. Walk in the fresh air more and well air the room where the child sleeps.
5. If the baby cries during bathing, walks, disguise, perhaps, the first experience of these procedures was unsuccessful. The child is afraid and feels discomfort. Create favorable conditions, stroke, you tell tender words, all movements let will be quiet and smooth. The first days of the newborn can be lowered in a bath together with a diaper, it is so simpler to get used to change of temperature condition. Sometimes children cry on the street, do not like to be in a carriage. At first you take out the child on hands, rock to sleep and put in a carriage, so he will get used and will cease to be afraid.
6. Check, did not freeze or the kid did not overheat. It is the reason of crying too. Inexperienced mothers exaggerate everything and instead of one baby's undershirt dress two – just in case.
7. If all above reasons are inappropriate probably the kid feels pain. It both gripes, and temperature, and cold, and teething. In this case consult with the pediatrician. You should not self-medicate.
8. To calm the child when he hit or frightened, take the following advice: • Take on hands and change scenery, carry away to other room, approach a window, stroke, regret. • Make laugh the child – tickle, wear "plane". • Show a favourite toy or a pet, six-month-old children very much love "the moving toys". • If the kid filled a cone – blow, for children it is the real delight, and also punish "offender" who is guilty.
9. The grown-up child presses for the fact that it is impossible for him. Use imagination, the son wants a crystal glass – offer an empty plastic bottle, tries to get into your casket – give a big empty box and hide in it toys. It needs to be done very quickly, improvisation will be able to help you with any situation.