Newborn children are not able to say therefore crying replaces with it the speech – by means of crying children want to tell parents that something does not suit them, and the reasons for that there can be a weight. Becomes a task of parents to define what is not enough for the child why he feels discomfort, and to realize his requirements that the kid calmed down. What do parents need to think of if the child cries?
Instruction
1. The nature of crying of the child, his tone and sounding can tell you about much – in particular, crying of the child strongly differs if something hurts it or if he is hungry and wants mother's care and attention.
2. Talk to the child aloud, tell about what you will make now, comment on the actions, you tell to the child tender words. If it does not calm the kid, pay him even more attention – take on hands, ask that it happened, give to the child feeling of tranquility and safety. Learn to understand language of children's crying, and then you easily will understand that your kid wants.
3. If the child cries especially strongly and hysterically, exclude from causes of illness – check whether the child experiences difficulties with breath, whether it has increased temperature, whether he refuses food. At the slightest suspicion of a disease show the child to the pediatrician.
4. If nothing threatens health of the child, his crying can be caused by pain, hunger, loneliness and boredom, discomfort, gripes, or just desire to relax. Try to exclude serially all reasons – by process of elimination you define main after which elimination the child will cease to cry.
5. Feed the child, replace to him a diaper or a diaper, change clothes for more comfortable and clean clothes. If crying of the child is caused by intolerance of any product from a feeding up, you will soon note interrelation of crying and feeding, and will be able to eliminate a product from food.
6. Sometimes crying of the child can be caused by a sleep debt and fatigue. In time put the child to bed day and night, and whenever possible you sleep together with him not to feel fatigue and concern.
7. Often kids feel belly-aches because of kolik, and it is necessary to cope with them while the child himself has no opportunity to get rid of pains, and they become the crying reason. If at the child the stomach is intense, he tightens legs up and cries, most likely it is hurt by a stomach, and in intestines gases accumulated – therefore you have to do to the child small exercises, tightening his knees to a stomach, and then straightening them.
8. Make to the child light massage, apply it a stomach to the body. To get rid of the accumulated gases, give to the kid children's tea with fennel, the dill water or medicamentous medicines suitable for small children.
9. Besides, the child can cry because of cold, the inconvenient and pressing clothes, scratches, overexcitation, and many other. You carry the child on hands more often, having put him in a baby sling that he constantly felt heat of your body.
10. Turn on the weakening music, sing the song, bath the child in a heat bath. Light an aromatic lamp with camomile oil, make massage – it will also calm the child. Give it the rattling subject or a rattle – they will distract the child from the crying reason.
11. Never abuse the crying child, be not nervous and you are not angry. Show him the care and love.