Whether it is possible to solve for the child, than it is better for it to be engaged? To what business he has to give preference and whether there will be this occupation of its hobby? It is necessary to entrust this difficult choice to the kid. Let he will be engaged in the fact that he is pleasant to him that it will do with desire and pleasure.
For whom option?
Many parents try not only to surround the child with the care, but also to solve for it than and when to it to be engaged. The child on coercion studies scales, spends forces for wearisome trainings. And this despite the fact that classes do not give it any pleasure. Whether such "dependent" hobbies are so necessary?
To help the child to make independently some choice, it is necessary to give it an opportunity most to try everything gradually. Let he will test at first that he attracts him more. Even if this occupation does not seem to you serious and status.
The child has to decide that he for him is priority. It is worse if playing a violin, the kid will dream of a hockey stick.
It does not mean that it is necessary to allow the child to have a ball. It is necessary to direct and adjust imperceptibly all its actions and acts. For this purpose it is possible to give unostentatiously examples of interesting affairs, to participate all family in some mass actions.
How to help the child to make a right choice?
Let's say your child with enthusiasm molds from plasticine. The kid for hours sits at this occupation, interesting and beautiful figures as a result turn out. It already says that at the child the assiduity is developed. In the future he can be interested in types of applied art, a sculpture, floristics. In this case the young creator can offer safely visit of art school or a circle of arts and crafts.
To size up addictions of the kid, it is necessary to watch more fixedly his actions during performance of any work or a game.
If malkik with pleasure collects the designer's details in inconceivable constructions if helps the father under repair of the car or the electric device, it is the best of all to send such child to club of radio fans, a circle of the young technician or aviamodel. Similar hobby for the equipment can become the real hobby. Girls with bigger hunting are engaged in needlework: knitting, cookery or tailoring of soft toys. There is a mass of circles of this orientation. Helping to develop the daughter such hobbies, parents can bring up not only the assistant for themselves, but also future good hostess. Well, and if at the child talents for music or dances opened, it simply should be noticed. Usually such children independently try to arrange house concerts, actively participate in school actions. They constantly sing something or hop. Such children should be carried away playing a musical instrument or a dancing circle. It is possible to be sure that these classes will become pleasant and favourite. Same concerns also sport. Children still try to find in early age to themselves works to liking independently. Just they do it not so skillfully and on some emotions. They from solidarity can go with the best friend to practice boxing or the ballet, and then throw an uninteresting circle. It is necessary to allow the child to try to find and disclose the personal abilities, in time to notice them and to push in the necessary direction. It is not necessary to impose to the son or the daughter in what you wanted to be engaged, your unfulfilled dream. Only to what soul really lies, can become a hobby for the rest of life. Therefore to choose, than to do in the spare time, the child has to independently.