Children's psychologists prompt to parents that they should observe balance between total control of the child and total freedom in his actions. In order that it is balanced to control the child there are several certain rules of conduct for his parents.
Instruction
1. Do not show excessive persuasive curiosity in relation to private life of the child. Any person, even absolutely young, has a right for own secrets, private life which he would not like to share even with dear people. In turn, being respectful to private life of the child, you show to him extreme degree of the trust to it. The child will estimate it and will report to you independently about those situations which demand your help.
2. Do not read the message in its mobile phone, personal diary entries, do not look in its e-mail and social pages on the Internet. But be always interested in affairs of the child in school, in sports section, in school. Thanks to your straight talks you will be aware, than your child is engaged. Ask whether your support, the help is necessary if he obviously worries concerning any situation in his life.
3. Allow your child to solve independently whom to him to be on friendly terms, communicate, to meet to whom to write and what clothes to put on. If the child wants to stay alone with the thoughts, give him the chance to make it. Do not rush into its room without knock.
4. As soon as possible accustom the child to trust you, to come with you for straight talk. Then in the teenage period it will be much easier for you to communicate with it. Always let know to the child that anyway you will help him and encourage.
5. Provide to the child the fertile field for cultivation of his talents. But at some point, when he will grow up, do not forget it to release in free floating. Be always ready to come to the rescue to it, but allow to resolve independently the problems, difficult situations if he does not ask about the help.
6. Take parental care, but moderately. Even when the kid absolutely still small, he the actions will show you what is not pleasant it what toy is unpleasant for it. Do not impose own interest to it even in that case. If the come acquaintance frays it for cheeks, and it is not pleasant to the kid, stop actions of the acquaintance, but not your child. Do not crush his personality and personal feelings to please to other people.
7. Do not forget that you were children too. Remember yourself at the age of your child. Quite perhaps you behaved in the same way as now the son or the daughter behave. Only when you will try on a situation and typicalness of behavior of the child on yourself, will be able to understand it, to forgive or help it.