There is a powerful opinion what to have pellets is successful option for the best education of children. They are less selfish and greedy, more sociable. Stair-steppers protect each other since early childhood, are very close with each other. They react to otnyatiye of a toy at them other children less spitefully. The tiny age difference gives to children many common interests and tastes, they well play together, perfectly borrowing at this each other.
Instruction
1. In education childrenof -pellets one of the main and necessary moments is reduction of the regime of children to uniformity. Try to create such daily routine at which it will be convenient to all. If the senior child wanted to play, you should not sniff constantly on him. Try to lay younger in kitchen or in other room.
2. Prepare the kid for the birth of the brother or little sister as physically (accustom to sleep separately, to do without carriage), and psychologically. Quite often already quite independent children at appearance of the fourth family member, begin "to sink into dotage". They behave as also the newborn, requiring to itself a lot of attention. Do not reproach the child, just quietly explain that he already outgrew this age. At requests to bring something or a tax, use a pronoun to "me", but not "it" (to the brother or the little sister).
3. At education of children-pogodok, especially at first, assistance is simply necessary. But it is not necessary to give completely the firstborn on care to nurses or grandmothers. Try to give also to it attention and love. Let dad, grandmothers also help with education of the younger child. At this time you pay the attention to the senior.
4. During walk it is very difficult to follow both children. Therefore try to teach to walk by the time of the birth of the kid of the senior without carriage. In addition, the child in one and a half-two years is very mobile, and over him more thorough control is necessary. It is necessary to make secure and pick up running away not in the put place of the madcap in time. To make it rather difficult when it is necessary to watch also a carriage. For the solution of this problem it is possible to get for younger a baby sling.
5. Special efforts winter walk delivers. That one child whom you already dressed did not stand and did not take a steam bath in a fur coat, accustom the senior to cope with buttons and footwear independently. Especially at this age at kids the habit "I" develops. It would be quite good to buy to it boots on velcros and clothes on buttons.
6. When children grow up, do not perceive the senior child for the adult, he all the same still small. Do not impose increased requirements to it, do not develop in it feeling of unhealthy rivalry or jealousy. Toys, books, clothes buy to kids at the same time.
7. Do not isolate the senior child from younger. Allow it to help you to look after it or to play with the tot. Tell more and explain to the child. You should not reject two rituals, habitual for you. If till the birth of the second kid you, putting the firstborn to bed, laid down near it and read for night of the fairy tale, continue this business. Try to construct day so that at this time younger did not require to himself your attention.
8. Usually parents of pellets have no problems with the choice of school or kindergarten. Send children to one educational institution, there both of them will be needs support of each other. As for the organization of leisure, it is better to take individual wishes of everyone into account here.
9. After two years it becomes much easier and simpler to bring up pellets, than children with a bigger age difference. They perfectly organize each other, it is together much more interesting to them. The senior child will feel like the real assistant in education of the younger brother or little sister. This sense of responsibility for the neighbor will bring further to it only benefit.