The most great happiness for parents - to raise the child, to play with it, to feel his love and affection! However there are situations when the kid does not obey, behaves aggressively, makes row in shop. How to behave also what to undertake to cope with his disobedience?
Instruction
1. Think whether not too authoritatively you bring up the kid, whether you give it opportunities for independent acts enough? If you only distribute teams: "It is impossible!", "Do not go!", "Do not touch!", for certain you will face obstinacy. The balance between freedom and the bans is necessary for the kid for harmonious development. The child has to feel that to him grant the right of the independent choice, and not just specify. If you refuse something to the child, do it with respect and love, explain the decision and offer an alternative.
2. If persuading to eat a porridge spoon, you are ready to indulge any whims of the child, he will very quickly feel an opportunity to manipulate you. Do not involve the TV, toys and promises as assistants, thus you will suit yourself a trap. Requirements of the kid will only grow.
3. Today you do not allow the child to play with father's phone, and tomorrow handed it to the crying kid to calm. Growing up, the kid will guess that in such a way can force mom and dad to execute any whim. Then be ready to listen to its shout at the slightest pretext. "You treat" such whims only patience and tranquility. Be consecutive and adhere to one line of conduct, otherwise the kid will very quickly orient what approach to apply to each of family members to achieve the.
4. Try to stop any whims in one effective way – distract attention of the child. Children have an amazing ability to switch the attention, completely forgetting about what interested them a minute ago. Show imagination and ingenuity, exclamation: "Look what birdie!" will quickly bother the kid, and you will lose his trust. The high-quality distracting maneuver demands more difficult scenario.
5. When the grown-up child poor-mouths at the slightest pretext, eliciting at you something, do not give in on provocation, be resistant and patient. Show to the kid that his moaning will not achieve the objective. If that he wants to receive from you well, tell him that changed tone with more cheerful and only then give the desirable. Firmly and together follow the rule: while the kid poor-mouths and aches – all his requirements are ignored.
6. Very lively children often protest and brawl because they cannot realize the energy. Try to walk more with such child in the fresh air, you spend time in outdoor games.
7. Not always negative emotions and behavior of the child, speak about his bad character. Look for sources of such acts in own behavior before writing off obstinacy and disobedience of the child for whims. The lack of attention and jealousy (when in family the younger child appears) are the most frequent reason of an emotional protest of kids. That yours the baby did not feel deprived, pay it more attention and time, and you will notice how it will change.