Each parent once begins to think of how to develop and from what to begin to develop feeling of independence at the child. It is just necessary in our life for each child. If you did not think of it, then by all means think. It is so good when your kid can already help about the house and satisfy any your request.
Instruction
1. Of course, it is necessary to begin with trust to the child. Do not abuse and furthermore do not punish if he made what is not really good in your opinion. It still child. The most important that he tried and made.
2. Give it for a start not such difficult and exigeant tasks for its age. Accustom to independent decision-making of problems. Ask as often as possible about where he wants to go that he will dress with whom he wants to walk. Be not afraid, it will only help your child to resolve issues and to come to the independent decision of problems. He will understand that to you not all the same that he thinks. Reckon with his opinion.
3. Also you can give it other task, for example, to wash the dishes, to beat a nail or to wash the floors. But only do not interfere with this process, the child has to wash the dishes and it is unimportant whether well it washed it or not. The main thing that washed and if you do not accept result, then praise the kid, and so far he does not see, wash up plates. It is important that he did not think that you flatter it.
4. After the done task which you gave it, do not forget it to praise, children need your love, care and caress. You will notice soon how your child will become more independently. You will be surprised to your joint efforts and are very glad. If he does not want to wash the dishes or to be engaged in any business, then do not force it, it will only aggravate situation, and the kid will not derive pleasure from the help to you.