How to cultivate feeling of kindness in the child

How to cultivate feeling of kindness in the child

Kindness is one of the major lines in character of the person. For this reason many parents since childhood try to impart such qualities to the child. It is possible to allocate especially several councils for education in the child of feeling of kindness.

To grow up the child the strong personality, it is necessary to pay special attention to development in it such qualities as generosity, kindness and responsiveness. It is important to teach him to communicate friendly with people, to be sympathetic and kind.

The main example for imitation are for the child his parents. Their behavior and the attitude towards people is copied by the child. If the kid sees mercy and kindness, cordial relations of relatives, then will perceive such behavior as due. 

Once the kid explains that in the world there are still a hostility and danger. At the same time there is no need to frighten the child. Once you simply prompt, it is correct to behave, having appeared in a dangerous situation.

Careful parents have to understand that developing kindness in the child, you should not encourage egoism, the indulgent relation, hysterics. It is necessary to surround the kid with care and love, but in an admissible framework. 

Parents should show caring attitude to elderly relatives, to help them, to support. The child has to understand importance of communication and care of old people. It is important to teach the child to do good deeds: to help the old woman crossing the road, to make a birds feeder, to feed a homeless animal.

If the kid made a bad act, it is necessary to teach him to apologize that he understood that he caused offense or pain to other person. It is necessary to Teach to show tender feelings to people. At the same time, it is impossible to press on pity that the child did not feel guilty, suppressed.

It is necessary to constrain irritability and negative emotions. If parents are angry, it is impossible to show it to the child. Parents should minimize scandals and abuse with people. Otherwise the child will learn to row at the slightest pretext and to try to obtain the shouts and crying.

If the child hyperactive, it is necessary to send his energy to the peaceful course. To ask it about the help with economy, to give the chance to feel adult and necessary. At the same time, adults need to be patient. If not everything at the kid turns out from the first, softly it is worth explaining in what the reason, properly right thing to do.

The child is a reflection of acts and behavior of parents. How adults behave, the behavior of the little personality depends. Develop love for people around in the child, and your kid will grow up the kind, sympathetic and decent person, pride of the parents.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team


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