In the modern world children do that want. Are capricious and do not listen to adults, can hit own mom, etc. Such children have no feeling of respect for seniors, i.e. respect. This quality is formed in the child for years therefore there are no ways in one day or month to force it to respect adults.
Instruction
1. Bring up the child in concert. Often at education of the child both parents have disagreements. For example, one parent forbids to watch to the child TV after 10 o'clock in the evening, and another, on the contrary, resolves. At the same time both parents can call each other by any bad words, losing the prestige on the child's eyes. It is impossible to cultivate respect at the child in such atmosphere. It is necessary to learn to respect, first of all, himself and each other. And to resolve disputes in the absence of the child.
2. You treat people around respectfully. To cultivate respect at the child for parents, elder sisters and brothers, tutors and adults, on own example show to the child that it is necessary to help elderly people and to greet adults.
3. Do not swear at the parents. Many young families live now with the parents who constantly interfere with education of children, reproach. In turn young mom and dad are not in debt, responding with roughness to any statement of seniors. The child absorbs all this in himself as a sponge, perceiving such behavior as norm. Therefore that there were no conflicts between different generations, try to live separately. At the same time regularly visit grandfathers and the child's grandmothers, you call them at the child and ask about their state of health, be interested in their life to show to the child respect for parents on a personal example.
4. Be strict, but at the same time kind parents. It is impossible to indulge too the child, to allow everything to him. In this case the child will not understand that such respect for seniors and will not obey. Use a method of a carrot and stick. Only it is possible to do without whip, having replaced it serious, clear for the child, with a talk and explanations.
5. Limit freedom of action of the child. Accurately define borders legal as the child does not know yet what is good and that is bad. Of course, he should tell several times a day the same, but the patience of parents at younger age will bear fruit in the senior, namely - respect for parents.