It is considered that the main purpose of the woman is to become mother. But sometimes it is difficult for many women to make up the mind to such heroic step. Most often they explain it with lack of material benefits. But observations showed that in poor families (as well as in the countries) the birth rate is higher. Means, the problem is somewhere more deeply or women just dissemble.
Instruction
1. You have to realize that it is very terrible to remain the lonely person. To that example, famous actresses of the Soviet era. They had everything - education, career, recognition, an applause, admirers. But sooner or later the old age comes, there comes the serious crisis in life, the person feels to nobody necessary. Where then to seek consolation? Of course, in the family. What prevents to realize itself as mom and the grandmother, to feel significant for someone? Unfortunately, such understanding comes with age when most of women are not able to take out the kid any more. Therefore think on these, it is still possible.
2. Reject all fears. The woman thinks out part of them itself, becoming the hostage of the thoughts. As a result one part of women is afraid to get out of a shape during pregnancy, others are frightened by childbirth. Remember how many nonparous young girls with the blurred forms you saw? And slender mothers? Comparison will help you to assess really a situation and to understand that pregnancy does not influence your figure in any way. Everything depends on your desires and efforts. Process of childbirth is not so terrible as it seems to you. When you see the tiny creation which is a part you and your darling - everything will be forgotten.
3. Do not refer to lack of material benefits. So you not when hesitate to give rise. The person always lacks something. For example, today you set the object to buy housing, tomorrow - the car, the day after tomorrow - giving. But this chain and will last indefinitely. Then you will want to have a rest in resorts, to go to various actions, and the child will hinder only. You should decide on changes in your life. And it is always more difficult to decide, than to go down stream.
4. Do not refuse the birth of the kid for the sake of career. It is possible to achieve success and being mom. Besides, the modern legislation allows to sit in the decree to the husband, the grandmother, the grandfather. You can only take a vacation for few months that the child stayed the first days with the mom. Always it is possible to find a get-out, it is only necessary to consider a situation carefully. Really the career is more important than the child?
5. Do not listen to negative councils for an occasion of the birth of the child from strangers. Listen to the heart, it precisely will prompt you the right decision. If you is married, you have a reliable husband then why you have to refuse happiness to become a mother? Immortality of the person consists in his children.