Creation of new family - a difficult and responsible step. If you cannot decide on it, perhaps, you need to weigh once again everything "pro" and "contra" and to think what moment is the most suitable for proposal.
Some people early enough and easily marry, and to other individuals happens not easy to decide on creation of family. If you refer yourself to the second category, it means that you approach creation of a new cell of society with all responsibility and do not want to force events. However here too it is important not to be overzealous with considering and whether the wedding is necessary to you. Otherwise you can miss love of all the life.
Perhaps, you are frightened by changes in your life which will be brought with itself by the introduction in a legal marriage. Then you need to focus on those pluses which life with the spouse gives. Believe, it is much more of them, than shortcomings. Do not think that, having finished a single way of life, you renounce something or sacrifice personal liberty. If competently to approach work on the relations, your union will bring you a set of the happy moments.
Keep in mind that after registration of marriage at you to appear own family, support in the face of the spouse. You together with the beloved will build the joint future. Perhaps, you will have children, the general house soon. Family happiness cannot be compared neither to successful career, nor to an enviable role in society, nor to wealth.
Present the life in several years in two variations. At first think what it could be if you dare on proposal. Present how you spend time in the bosom of the family with darlings and dear people. Then visualize the second version: what will be in the future with you if you remain the lonely bachelor. Most likely, the free way of life will bother you with age. If you cannot decide to make the proposal because you do not know how it is better to present a ring to the beloved, stop to complicate everything. Any evening which you spend together with the partner can be the successful moment. Let your words, recognitions and hopes for the happy joint future will be a highlight of the program. Remember that it will be pleasant to the girl that you decided to carry out with her all life. And the fact that there are no musicians, candles or the sea beach, already not so important around. Perhaps, you think that your beloved can refuse to you. Stop to doubt yourself. Time you together, so between you is mutual, great and pure feeling. If to present the least favorable outcome of your conversation when your partner does not share your desire to legalize your relations, in it there is plus too. At least, you will get rid of uncertainty and receive quite concrete feedback.