The birth of the child not only great joy for parents, but also heavy responsibility, efforts. Even the healthy, normally developed kid is absolutely helpless and defenseless at the beginning, it is constantly necessary to look after him. Besides during the first period of life the only way of his communication with adults – crying. And it is often heavy to parents to understand why the kid cries: for hunger, because it wet, to it cold or hot. Perhaps, he was frightened of something.
Instruction
1. The increased fearfulness at the kid can be shown in various forms. For example, the nightmares sometimes reaching nightmares. Their signs: the child suddenly wakes up with loud crying, scaredly looks around, he manages to be calmed not at once, having even taken on hands. Any attempt to lay it back in a bed, especially, to leave, having left his one in the room, the kid meets by new crying, shouts. If parents do not take measures to the termination of nightmares (type: "nothing, will shout, will cry – will get used"), at the child there can come persistent sleep disorder, deterioration in appetite, the feeling of weakness, constant fatigue will appear. In the most hard cases business can reach nervous breakdown.
2. Very often the fright of the child is expressed in fear of loneliness. Such situation is familiar to many parents: the kid lifts a desperate roar as soon as it is left one, even in the afternoon and for a short time. Business reaches the most real hysterics. The reasons of such fright are different: features of physiological and mental development of the kid, a mistake in education (too accustomed to hands), etc.
3. The child is often frightened loud sounds. Just because he is not able to connect cause and effect yet, and does not understand that the sound of the working vacuum cleaner or meat grinder does not conceal any threat, danger. The kid understands only one: something terribly began to roar. Probably, this some awful monster. It is very simple to define such fright: the child at each loud sound which was distributed in the house or on the street, sharply shudders, begins to cry.
4. Children are also often frightened dogs. Alas, neither owners of brothers smaller, nor parents often even try to put themselves to the place of the kid. Moreover, sometimes parents bring the kid to a dog: "She is good, kind, she will not bite!" And from where the child at the level of whose face the sharp-toothed mouth suddenly appeared can know it? Even the decorative doggie will seem to the small child huge. Such fright too easily is defined: the kid shudders, cries, having heard dog bark. And at the sight of a dog at it the hysterics can even begin.