The temperament at the person determines the speed, intensity of his mental reactions and emotional states. It is possible to determine temperament of the person by an observation method. The person can observe, but there will be assessment of the people surrounding him more objectively. In the adult several types of temperament are usually combined. The created will power and character helps to control temperament to it. It is much more difficult to child to operate the temperament because it has no rather developed will for this purpose yet. The task of parents is to define the dominating temperament type at their child, to study its strong and weaknesses. There are four main types of temperament: melancholic, sanguine, choleric and flegmatichesky.
It is required to you
- long observation of the kid
Instruction
1. Observe the child if he tends to the listed below reactions and types of behavior, then his temperament - sanguine. The kid reacts to remarks of adults (parents or teachers) vividly, apologizes if he was naughty, but five minutes later is accepted to the, with the doubled enthusiasm again. If the child has to argue, he actively costs on the opinion, but at the same time is capable to hear opinion of other person. In the unfamiliar room (on a visit, at the doctor, at you at work) the child quickly is guided, begins to study the new world surrounding it. The child quickly replaces one game with another.
2. Usually you hardly manage to convince the kid that he does wrong. On all your arguments about it he shows anger and sharp disagreement, and then all the same arrives in own way. He does not perceive opinion of peers seriously and if business reaches a dispute, it is just refuses to listen, can tell sharp things, it is easy to offend other person, even to hurt. It is very quick-tempered. In an unfamiliar situation is nervous, it is difficult to it to sit still. If the listed qualities suit your child, his temperament - choleric.
3. Usually you without problems explain to the kid as you should not behave. He accepts your remark, agrees and does not do any more for what you made it a remark. If it is necessary to make the decision your kid never fusses before making something he weighs all options and chooses the most suitable. Makes all acts without internal and external vanity. Is able to concentrate and finish the begun business. In the place, new to it, he looks around, quietly studying surrounding objects and people. If the listed qualities suit your child, his temperament - flegmaticheskiya.
4. On remarks, requests not to play pranks the kid instantly takes offense, and to tears. If you ask the child that is pleasant to him more, ask to choose between several options (where to go for a walk what toy to take), he usually behaves shy. It is difficult to make decisions to him. In the relations with peers he is indecisive too, never gets into a dispute, one prefers to be. The child usually hides for your back in a situation, new to it, with new people behaves is held down. Almost does not show the emotions. The listed qualities refer to melancholic temperament.