Features of activity of children are shown since the birth that can be seen both during feeding, and on duration of the periods of cheerfulness, and on vigor of movements. It is important to keep and develop children's activity which is given to the child by nature.
It is required to you
- Space for movements, sports accessories, free clothes and ability to define need of the child for activity that in time to satisfy it
Instruction
1. Do not forbid the child to be active but only send his energy to social and acceptable activity: to kick not toys, but a ball; to knock a stick not on TV, and on a cover from which it is necessary to beat out dust: "Clear head! Mother's assistant!".
2. Offer the child those types of activity which are pleasant to him most of all where it is most active and long does not feel fatigue. If it is pleasant to play soccer, let plays so much how many wants. And you learn its potential of activity: how many minutes, hours it can be physically active in what time of day and under what conditions.
3. Do those affairs, necessary for development, which not really are pleasant to it together with the child and he does not show interest in them. Interest can go from mom or dad. Kids usually like to do something together with parents, and at first the activity will keep on the interest of parents, and then when and at the child it begins something to turn out, the activity to this type of activity will be shown also at it.
4. Ask the child you to teach something. For example, to do a frog of paper. Children daily study something in kindergarten, and you already forgot how it was done earlier. Therefore the kid can become your teacher. Thank him for the help and for the fact that did not refuse to help you. You will see pride in eyes and in the child's pose, and, will see, in the nearest future he will try still you to teach something, trying at the same time in a garden or at school of development properly to remember everything.
5. The aggressive child teach to direct the energy for the good - work, the help to relatives, creation. Or just give them an opportunity to pour out the aggression. Hostile children are always active, but use the force in destruction. Think what can be destroyed with further advantage for the child and all family in general: to dig white paper for a hamster and to put in a cage, to saw off the dried-up branches in a garden, to remove bed linen for washing, to throw out in garbage dirty paper, etc. Gradually add also creative action, but do not demand its performance at once.
6. Build exercises and sport in family in a cult. Organize joint long walks or jogs. Encourage any aspirations in this direction – buy together sports accessories, exercise machines, comfortable clothes and footwear.