The child can turn for a short period from the obedient kid into the capricious child who sometimes cannot be calmed. This stage there pass almost all parents. The main thing that it did not pass into a habit. If it already occurred, it is possible to fight against it and it is necessary.
Instruction
1. Understand that for any whim the child has bases. Just he is still very small to explain what he wants or that disturbs him. At first deal with the reason of shouts and hysterics. Quite often kids are capricious because of feeling sick.
2. Very often children resort to rough manifestation of the indignation for search of "lever" of impact on parents. It is especially characteristic of children aged from 2 up to 3 years when they begin to realize themselves separately from parents. If you let it know that you are ready for any concessions, if only not to hear shouts - everything, this mechanism is found. Be ready that the kid will express any desire thus.
3. Therefore have patience better and do not pay attention. It is hard, especially when the child begins to behave improperly in public - in shop, on the street, on a visit. However it should be made and shown it that this method does not act on you. Explain to the relatives and acquaintances that they also should not react to these temporary changes of character of your child.
4. In some cases it is necessary to resort to strict measures. Learn to speak "no" and if you that that was forbidden - at all do not change the decision after scandal from the child. After several bans he realizes your determination and will understand senselessness of the indignation.
5. Use a game element in the actions, less possibility of manifestation of whims from its party is so simpler to achieve from the child the necessary result. For example, if the kid does not want to eat porridge and violently is indignant about it, play with him the plane or an engine which haul freight and have to get to it into a mouth. As a rule, the kid who is carried away by a game forgets in what occasion he agreed not with you. Surely praise the kid for qualitative "delivery of cargo".
6. You praise it for all correct actions, the positive emotional spirit reduces thirst for whims. Do not remember to it last scandals, he has to understand that for you it does not matter. Gradually the habit of the child to be capricious at the slightest pretext will come to naught.