Many parents indulge the small children and often carry them on hands. It comes down that kids cannot even fall asleep without ukachivaniye any more. It is possible not to pay attention to it while the child still small, but when he matures, and does not want to fall asleep independently, it becomes a big problem for parents. It becomes heavy to mothers and fathers to pace with the child on hands about the room and to rock to sleep him before going to bed therefore they try it quicker to disaccustom to it.
Instruction
1. To disaccustom the child to fill up on hands, once at first he offers a certain alternative. It is worth passing gradually and smoothly. At first let the child sees you, but at the same time lies on a bed. You can even sleep with the child that he felt your presence, but at the same time was not at you on hands.
2. Through some period you can "replace" yourself with a plush toy that the child still felt presence something warm and soft, and you could sleep peacefully on the place. If the child begins to be capricious, then it is not necessary to take him on hands. Sit down near him and tell him something, for example the fairy tale, a quiet soft voice. Thereby you will calm the kid and will lull without swing on hands. And already in the course of growing the child will become more independent, and will not require a lot of your attention.
3. To disaccustom the child it is easy to fill up on hands, having surrounded him with other interesting things, for example, toys. But nevertheless, so far the small child, you should not disaccustom him strongly. Find for him time because he has the right for the happy childhood. The choice in education of the child completely for you. You can take it to sleep with yourself, and to further organize to it own bed, having surrounded with toys. Or you can put its bed at yourself in the room and pay it attention even at night that will not be comfortable for you, but is comfortable for it. On the early period of life the child has the right to attention at any time, to that it both the child, and his education – a hard task.
4. You need to know a certain balance between kindness and severity. And depending on it to make different acts including to disaccustom the child to hands. Whether it is worth doing it or to wait is already to solve to you. And the main thing is to decide correctly for your family therefore be not mistaken when performing such, apparently, petty, but at the same time important steps. Anyway, good luck to you in it.