Laying of the kid to sleep by means of a breast is a favourite method of many mothers. Besides, absolutely little children fall asleep at meal time. However it becomes a serious problem when the child grew up and demands a breast at night in increasing frequency.
Instruction
1. Divide feeding of the child a breast and his dream if desired to continue natural feeding.
2. Remember that the child who got used to fall asleep with a breast in a mouth associates food and a dream. These concepts for it are identical. Therefore, having woken up at night one in a bed, he demands a way, habitual for himself to fall asleep. Therefore the kid does not sleep at night and brings a lot of trouble upon parents.
3. If the small (4-6-month-old) child accidentally fell asleep itself, do not feed him at night even if time approached for this purpose. Offer the kid a breast better? after awakening, and then play with it. Try to put the child to bed during the game next time.
4. Having decided to accustom more adult child to independent falling asleep, you spend with it more time in the afternoon. Pay a maximum of attention and care.
5. Remove the day feedings used not for saturation, and for calm of the child, having replaced them with games, reading, walks, etc.
6. Believe in the forces and be adjusted on positive result. Having felt your tranquility, the kid will become quieter too.
7. Entrust laying of the child to dad or other family member. Add some new element to a ritual of laying of the kid, for example, reading the book. Do not give in on the child's whims. If you resolved that everything will turn out – and will be.
8. Try to apply a method, called "timer". In the first days when the child prepares for sleeping, turn on the timer for 10 minutes. Explain that after this time, the kid has to cease to eat and lay down in a bed. Give a breast. When the alarm clock rings out, begin to stack the baby. In the first day it will be rather difficult. Be tender and patient. Several days later, begin to set the alarm clock for 4 minutes. Add reading the fairy tale before falling asleep of the kid. In several days it is possible to cancel night feeding.
9. Talk to more adult children (about 2 years). Explain to them what at the night of a milk does not happen, etc. Tell a similar story for all day.