Happens that the child so gets used to a joint dream that forgets about the bed. If it brings to parents inconveniences, it is necessary to try to save the kid from a habit to sleep with dad and mom.
Instruction
1. When the child sleeps in a matrimonial bed, parents badly get enough sleep, often get up at night and cannot conduct normal intimate life. Some couples easily accept the right of the kid for a joint dream, others are categorically adjusted to stop it. To sleep ideally it is separately necessary to accustom since childhood. If you worry for the newborn if he sleeps one badly, remove one of walls of a crib and move up to big.
2. Remember that there is no unambiguous opinion on how it is better for child to sleep - together with parents or separately-. If to you it is comfortable, and you consider that it is so best of all for the kid, sleep together. Do not look back at other parents and do not listen to foreign councils. It is better for you to understand how to build relationship in the family, and consequences of such decisions will be on you too.
3. Try to fall asleep together with the child, and then to carry him in own bed. Some children experience difficulties with falling asleep, and then quietly snuffle separately from parents. On a daytime sleep it is possible to stack the kid on a large bed, but not to sleep with him nearby. So he is gradually accustomed independence too.
4. When the kid grows up, together with him choose to him a new crib. Process sometimes so inspires and carries away children that then they with pleasure sleep separately. But if you grant to the child option, listen to his opinion and do not impose the options. To avoid imprudent purchase, let's the kid choose, for example, from 5 furniture models accepted for you. So he will show independence without prejudice to you. The same concerns purchase of bed linen. Let it will be a set with his favourite toons or animals.
5. Do not crawfish in the attempts. Persuade the child, you give examples, use a skazkoterapiya, lose the moment of independent falling asleep with dolls, give with yourself a favourite toy, but do not give up. Let you will have evening rituals repeating day by day with acceptance of a bathtub and reading fairy tales. Such constancy calms children and adjusts on a dream. Do not abuse the child and be benevolent.
6. Learn why the kid does not want to sleep one. Perhaps, he is afraid of something. A source of fear it is possible to draw, feed, make laugh. Put for the night for this purpose of whom the child, some treat, for example, drying is afraid, and tell that the full and happy fear will touch nobody and will just leave. Or give to the kid ""magic"" berry or a tablet (vitamin) from which he allegedly has to lose faith in existence of the fictional character, cease to be afraid of it or to become impregnable for it. Let the child be protected by a favourite toy or a pet.