Many children are not able to get acquainted, begin friendship, a conversation with peers, they hesitate and do not know what to begin communication with. Often such ability develops over time, the child is more senior, the to him it is more ordinary.
Process of training in this skill begins with the birth and is formed in parallel with growing. Therefore the most difficult stage of this question drops out for school days. How the child will show in himself in a class as he will learn to prove in collective, to perform tasks, to answer to a large number of people, his future is formed.
Many parents face a problem of motivation of school students for study. They can often hear from children of the complaint to schoolmates. And subsequently can be refused the child from school. This problem is relevant practically for each family, nevertheless, it is necessary to find its solution. For this purpose parents should understand key indicators of such negative points.
Of course, each child after visit of school not only is tired physically and morally, but also has a stress. He tries to join the new, unfamiliar environment in which there are a lot of foreign people and extraneous noise. On the kid the huge responsibility for the progress lies and he needs to learn to live according to the schedule. Parents and teachers need to control process of adaptation of the school student in collective.
Surprisingly, but many difficulties can be avoided if to form thirst for new knowledge in the child. Children by nature grow inquisitive, they want to gain knowledge and aspire to it. On parents the responsibility lies not to fight these desires off the kid. He should help to develop, for example, to visit theaters, the museums, exhibitions. In that case the child himself will want to learn new and will stretch to knowledge acquisition.
If the school student complains of misunderstanding from schoolmates or teachers, then mom and dad should not ignore this question. But in such situation it is important to remain objective. It is necessary to listen to several parties and opinions on this question. You should not get excited. It is possible that the child is not absolutely right in the behavior. It is important to teach the child to go on compromises with other people.
Mutual understanding will reign in that case. You should not overpraise also the kid or on the contrary unreasonably to abuse him. Making any given action, the parent has to understand the party of the child and punish or praise the child in that degree in which he deserves it. It is also worth improving the relations between parents and the teacher. Not superfluous will be to communicate from psychologists. Then if necessary it will be possible to address for council.
The love for training, knowledge of the world around, for development is put in family, and parents are responsible for these qualities. Therefore if something went wrong as the parent expects, it is necessary to reconsider the relations in family.