Love of children – one of the most natural and noble feelings. At some parents it is so strong that any separation from the child, even short-term, is endured very painfully. For some fathers and mothers it is very heavy, they feel devastated, are nervous and irritate children constant calls, instructions on e-mail, Skype, etc.
Instruction
1. Try to convince yourself that even the parental love if it takes the excessive forms, can do much harm not only to you, but also your children. It is quite natural that you miss the offsprings and worry for them, but it is impossible to assume that your feelings turned into the most true obsession. It will go it is not good.
2. Calm yourself arguments: now not former times when exchange of letters took long weeks if not months. Presently you can always contact children. There are mobile phones, the Internet and other means of communication. But it is not necessary to abuse it, give to your children freedom. If your child needs the help, he can address any minute you. And whether to throw him every day with infinite questions like "all at you as it should be" and the same infinite instructions does not follow. Do not you want to the child communication with you to become burdensome?
3. Remind yourself that you wanted your children to study, got a good education or have just a rest. If for this purpose they had to go to other city, so so it is necessary. It would be really better if they remained under "a parental wing", having lost prospects only because to mom and dad is so quieter? The parental love should not be neither blind, nor selfish.
4. Inspire in yourself that your children, gains without everyday parental guardianship, will become for certain more skilled, more independently and predpriimchivy. These qualities very much will be useful to them in further life. Hardly you want that they were shy, indecisive, incapable of anything without parental support.
5. Try to fill the formed emptiness with some new hobby, a hobby or work. Be chosen from the house more often, attend concerts, performances, that is cultural actions. Devote this time to yourself.