How to explain to children what is love

How to explain to children what is love

The love is inexplicable feeling with which solution many years scientists struggle. Those who experienced these emotions disperse in the definitions. Nevertheless, if your child reached age of "why-asker", you should explain to him what is love.

Instruction

1. Since the infancy you say to the child that you love it. The love and caress of parents are necessary to the kid as air. They help it to develop, feel desired and protected in this world. The child since childhood will hear the word "love", and it will already have certain notions of this feeling.

2. For many children living in full families, a standard of love are their parents. Explain to the kid love on the example, choosing such descriptions which will be clear to the little man. Dad loves mom therefore he buys by her flowers that to please it. Mom makes for dad a lunch because she cares for it. Sometimes parents together go to the cinema or restaurant because they like to be together. And the most important proof – mom with dad so love each other that they had a child.

3. The child himself also has feeling of love, just does not realize it yet. Tell the kid that it is similar to joy which he feels when dad comes back in the evening from work, happiness from a campaign with parents to the park, fun during the joint games. Such examples will be available and clear for the child.

4. In three-four years at childrenbeginof first kindergarten love. Treat feelings of the kid seriously, and be not lost if his choice dumbfounded you. Your child can say that he is going to marry both the girl from his group, and the teacher. Offer the son options of admissible behavior: for example, he can dig to the ladylove a bouquet of flowers on the way to a garden or protect her from boys. In a case with the teacher you can tell the unfortunate groom that his beloved is already married that interferes with development of their further relations.

5. Good animated films teach children reasonable, kind, eternal. Look together with the child of "Carlson who a stomach on a roof". In one of episodes when the Kid sat up on a visit on a roof at the friend, and parents began to worry, mom Malysha claims that she loves the son and will not sell it even for hundred thousand millions. Gives such answer to the child of idea of the power of this feeling.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team


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