According to the recommendations of pediatricians to nurse the child follows up to 1.5-2-h years. To this age at the kid own immunity is already created, there is no such need for mother's milk as earlier and therefore possibly end of a lactation.
Instruction
1. If need of breastfeeding when the kid is put to a breast only 1-2 times a day disappeared, his diet already contains enough firm food, dairy products dishes, etc., excommunication from a breast will take place almost imperceptibly for the baby. In this case the kid himself initiates the termination of a lactation. And if also mom feels that she of milk arrives less and less, so it was lucky doubly – both are ready to refuse breastfeeding.
2. The weariness of mom from the fact that it is necessary to be constantly ready to meet requirements of the baby in sucking of a breast can be the cause of violent excommunication. It is difficult at big load of mom with house efforts or at her appearance at work. Then it is necessary to remember that the basic rule of the end of breastfeeding is a gradualness. To complete a feeding stage a breast with the smallest damage to physical and mental health of mom and the kid, a lot of time is necessary. As a rule, it is about months.
3. So, if the decision on the end of breastfeeding is made finally and irrevocably, then it is necessary to begin with input of restrictions, and then and the bans on applying to a breast in public places, on a visit or at reception of guests at home, etc.
4. After that it is necessary to reduce the number of day feedings by a breast. On requests of the baby to give a breast react quietly, try to distract the kid games, you walk him, etc.
5. The next stage - to accustom to fill up the child in the afternoon without mother's breast. Here people close to mom and the child who in her absence will stack the kid can help, having explained to him that mom left for a while on an important issue. Of course, the kid will resist and will begin to fall asleep without mom far not at once, but gradually he will get used to presence of the native person and still will fall asleep without her.
6. To fill up in the afternoon in the presence of mom – the following step of process of excommunication. When the kid in a bed, try to leave the room for a while, then increase time of the absence. At the same time it is necessary to explain that mom nearby, just performs some house work. After a while, in your joy, the kid will begin to fill up one.
7. And, of course, "aerobatics" – to accustom to fill up the baby without breast in the evening. At first think up rituals which you awake to make every time before going to bed. For example, to read the book, to wash, put toys, etc. It is important to observe the exact sequence of actions over and over again and to gradually exclude such ritual as sucking of a breast. After a while the kid will cease to notice that he lacks something.
8. Among mothers and grandmothers there is a popular belief that it is necessary to finish a lactation by all means in the spring. In it there is a certain rational grain as the end of breastfeeding leads to decrease in immunity of the kid who without feed by breast milk does not cope with winter cold weather or summer games on the street in sand, consumption of new fruit and berries, etc.
9. Throughout the entire period of end of a lactation mom has to be sure that she does, is quiet and persistent. However if you begin to notice excessively expressed negative protest about groans of the baby, be ready to return for a step backwards and, having a little waited, to begin all over again.