If send you persuasive letters, SMS, constantly keep ringing and try to catch on the street, so you had a persecutor. Usually it is the former boyfriend or just mad fan to whom you are pleasant. You should not be reconciled with such state of affairs, his behavior is unpredictable and can turn back awful consequences.
Make it clear that this person is not interesting to you and you can have no relations. In addition by a steady and firm voice tell that he did not call, did not write and did not pursue you. If you have a young man, let he will talk to him, perhaps, seeing the strong man, he will be frightened and will leave you alone.
Avoid any contacts with the persecutor
Change the phone number and e-mail, tell all acquaintances that did not tell anybody information on you. Refuse use of social networks, or limit to them access. If you rent apartment, change the place of residence. Change a route before work, you go to other shop, use other institutions. Try to bring down him from a trace that he lost you. It is desirable to do it quickly and imperceptibly that he did not manage to react and again to track down you.
Try not to contact to it. Do not answer calls, throw out gifts, envelopes and parcels which it sends. If you see on the street, you come over to other side or come back. Do not give in on provocation, do not answer and do not get into an argument. Having felt from you response, it can enhance the efforts. Fix the events and gather evidence. Put them not at home, and in a safety-deposit box. In the same place leave all information which about it is known to you. When there are enough proofs against the persecutor, contact police that they influenced him. Tell about a cell to friends and relatives that in case of your sudden disappearance they could use it.
Protect yourself and relatives
Install in the house the security alarm system, strong doors and locks, lattices at windows. When choosing the apartment give preference to average floors. As a last resort, live some time at friends about whom the persecutor does not know. You wear comfortable shoes and clothes that in case of need you could run away. You steer clear of the persecutor, avoid dark lanes, you go in crowded places. Ask men to meet you after work. Always you carry with yourself phone, and introduce in it numbers of the emergency services. Think over how to work in a critical situation. Present different options of succession of events, and for everyone think up the plan. Prepare all necessary things, collect documents in one place. Find where you will be able to hide in case of threat of life, leave money and products there. Tell about it only to the closest people to whom you trust. Learn self-defense, you carry with yourself means of self-defense, for example, a pepper barrel. Get a large dog that she protected you on walks and the house in your absence. Train in run to manage to escape from the persecutor.