The visit of shop with the kid without the correct preliminary preparation often becomes an extreme event, at the same time not only for the child's parents, but also for other people around it people. The situation when the kid suits a hysterics near a counter, is familiar to much.
If it is not your kid, then the only recommendation – to understand it and to try not to interfere nevertheless with such "intra family" scandals. It is unlikely it will lead to something good, and you will only cause irritation whereas the child manages to be calmed hardly in the trustee.
If this your child crying elicits the next toy, and you meet it regularly, then to redden and try to explain to people around something (for example that such toys at your place already whole vehicle fleet), is not necessary too. It is not necessary and to refuse completely similar shopping, and to teach him to shop here in a civilized way it is worth trying. The large value in prevention of a similar situation is played by right preparation for the planned visit of shop and following to the caused rules indoors.
Let's begin with what it is not necessary to neglect advantage of preliminary drawing up the list of necessary purchases. It will allow to reserve funds not only on children's desires, but also will reduce a possibility of unplanned expenditure in general. Discuss still houses that your child wants most of all, ask it to think and choose completely one-two toys, most for it desired. Add them to the list, nevertheless, in the end, and in shop remind all the time that the designer necessary to it or the magazine you will get surely, however only after in your bag there are products which are present at the list, you agreed completely to follow the list and you by all means will reach a toy of the kid.
If the visited shop is already well familiar to you, then it will be useful to think over prematurely a route along which just you also will move. Most big shops intentionally display own goods so that so far you will reach necessary to you, in particular, a grain counter, it is necessary to pass by various delicacies and a diverse economic trifle which, it seems, and is necessary, but in in household shop costs much cheaper. As a result, you will approach cash desk not only with long loaf necessary to you, but also with whole bunch of various good which was not planned to be gained.
So a great option of shopping with the child - the shopping list, prematurely thought over route and own example of following to a certain plan for the child.